Posts from the ‘Family’ Category


If friendship is based on my weakness, how good is it. I’d rather have friends who are also strong,  kind, and caring.


When I allow others to control my life my future is in their hands. The past will not manage me because I live in the present.


Where there’s a will there’s a way to achieve what is available for your enlightenment.

Best Works

Things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out.

santa claus mode

Staying in the Santa Claus mode of avoiding success enables me to return to protected childhood habits.  But at any moment I can choose to stop putting off things that could possibly bring me satisfaction and start me on my way to a desired goal.  I can ask myself what is the worse that could happen if I stopped putting my “IT” off.  Then apply a designated time to devote exclusively.


Success and procrastination are incompatible.  Wishing and hoping are waste of time.  My behavior is a better barometer of who I am than my words.  Critics are often non-doers because doing takes effort, risks, and change.  I avoid self-appointed critics and fault-finders like the plague.

Rigid Dreams

Trade rigid dreams for spontaneity with room to move:  Think it; feel it; expect it beyond fear.  Expecting worse invites it.  Negative expectation is positive determination misdirected.