Posts from the ‘calming’ Category

Being Well

I reflect often on life in order to know me because not realizing what’s best for my well being prevents my being from being well.


Dream maker

The past is gone, the future lies ahead. Only this day, this moment, my thoughts  will lift me or drop me. The direction is mostly up to  me. Good or bad. My choice.

Opinion Myths

When my self-respect depends on opinions of others, I am a slave to the myth. I will love self whether I sink or swim. I am proud of me due to my courage to go for it. The audience out there don’t measure my failure or my success, I do. Therefore, the only person I’m trying to impress is me. Waiting for respect from others is ridiculous. I play ultimately to audience of me and when I lose myself in the effort I know that I’m on the right track. Being aware that some days will be hard is okay because life without struggle is not reality. I term my success on courageously living each day to the max while being true to me.


When I allow others to control my life my future is in their hands. The past will not manage me because I live in the present.


Where there’s a will there’s a way to achieve what is available for your enlightenment.

Best Works

Things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out.

living effectively

People who love self do not hurt self.  They think of self as too significant to live with anxiety of self-hatred.  Being orphaned at age two it has taken many years for me to arrive at this space of self-satisfaction; but damn does it feel good to tackle fear of living effectively.  I’ve made many neurotic choices by believing I’m not strong.  It’s not the excellent performing but simply the doing itself that’s far more important.  Write contracts to self and add penalties for default.  I am my best friend because I like me.